True To Life | Real People & Honest Meeting

We understand that not everyone would like their profile to be shown in public. So, you do not want to go on our site, but you are still looking for that special one, your future partner. If that is true, then our Private Dating Service is exactly what you are looking for. This is also known as a matchmaking service.

This service is only provided on an individual basis. Any request is handled in person by our staff in cooperation with the staff of our partner agencies. Any man can contact us and ask us to search for a woman for him without being a member on our site. After you contact us, we will proceed with establishing your matchmaking parameters, which are very different and more detailed than the matchmaking forms you will see on our site. After that we will match you with a choice of three to five women according to your personal preferences. You will then have the choice to start communicating with any or all of these women. We only work with people we know personally so you can rest assured that any match we provide for you is 100% genuine and wants to connect with you.

Unlike many other matchmaking services, we do not provide "singles events" in the home country of these women. We work exclusively with you and a handful of women that are honestly interested in getting to know you. Meeting your true love should never become a speed-dating event or a beauty pageant. We are very sure that you will be more comfortable communicating with a woman in private.

For your comfort we offer this service for a very limited number of people. Please understand that we retain the option to decline any requests for this service. We evaluate every applicant, and only work with those we find to be 100% sincere and honest. All our contracts with local agencies are very strict and requires the highest level of accountability. You will never come across a fake person or a refusal to meet in person if you have a mutual interest to meet.

This is our guarantee to you:

This is not a "mail order bride" service. Every step of this process is reliant on mutual consent. We will only match you with women that best suits your interests, personality, and other requirements.
You will never communicate with a "fake" person.
You will never experience that any woman we put you in contact with asks for money or gifts. If this ever happens, we will refund your every expense from the time you signed up for this service.
You will never experience that a woman you have been communicating with "disappears" without prior notice or any explanation.
We will never charge you for communicating with the women we have selected for you. We are not a "pay per minute" business.
You will never be asked to pay for anything other than the cost of this service and your own ticket when you travel to meet the woman of your choice.
You will never show up to meet a woman in her home country and find that she is not there to meet you.
When arriving to meet a woman you will have local support from us or one of our partners. There is a small fee for these services which we will inform you of in advance.
When staying in the country of your selected woman you are only expected to pay for your own lodgings and food. We will never ask you to pay anything for the woman you are meeting (drinks, food etc.). If you choose to so, this will always be your free choice.
We will tell you about every cost of this service upfront. There are no hidden fees and no expectations for you to pay for anything that you do not feel comfortable with.

We are Norwegian owned and operated company, and we operate within the laws of Norway and the EU, trying to make the online dating industry and the matchmaking business safer and more honest. We operate according to very strict values and business principles. Honesty and reputation will always be more important to us than money.

If you would like more information about this service, please contact us at

Verification guidelines explained

Why do we require verification by ID for all members?

We do this for several reasons. The main reason is your safety. Unfortunately, the online dating industry is known to have a lot of problems with scams and dishonest people trying to get to your wallet. By requiring every member to provide a form of identification, you can be sure that every person you meet on this site really are who they say they are. If anyone should ever ask you for money or gifts, please report them immediately. We have their identification papers on file and will contact the local authorities.

Secondly, we want you to be sure that every member's age and place of residence is 100% correct. Sadly, people often talk or chat for months before discovering that the information given on a profile was incorrect.

Why do we require a photo with a keycode verification?

If you have ben on other dating sites you might have experienced that the photos on a member's profile do not represent how they look in real life. Once you start communicating you realize that they actually look 10 years older, or even worse, the photos were not of them at all. Our staff checks every photo on every profile and compare them to the uploaded photo with keycode. Any photo that does not match a member's true appearance is deleted. We also have a strict policy of not allowing photos older than 12 months on our site.

Why do you need my phone number?

We ask for your phone number to be able to do random security checks. If we are unsure about a member's identity one of our staff will request a short video call.

What if I do not want to upload a copy of my passport or other ID?

We understand that you might be reluctant to do this. But, all documents uploaded to our site are stored on a secure server in the UK, and we are a Norwegian owned and operated company. Any document you upload are only used for verification purposes. It will never be shared with anyone. Still not comfortable with this process? We do provide other methods of verification. Just complete step 2 and 3 which are uploading a photo of yourself with the keycode provided and entering your phone number. After this you will receive a very short call from a member of our staff who will ask you to show them your ID.

What is the point of such strict verification policies?

We want your journey on this site to be an amazing experience. A quest to find your true love without worrying whether they are "real" or not. For this to happen we must make sure that every member is verified. By our verification process we create a safe community of very real and likeminded people that are looking for a serious relationship. With us you will not meet scammers or encounter fake profiles. No bots sending you endless mails about interest from members or "your profile have been viewed", every day. We believe that is worth the little extra effort that our verification routines require.

Welcome to truetolife's Private Dating Service!